How often do you find yourself living on autopilot? As humans, we are creatures of habit, often doing the same things every day in the same way; including showering, brushing our teeth, putting on makeup, making dinner, doing the dishes, cleaning, driving, eating, walking the dog, going to work (etc.) Many women who join our program report that they’ve been going through the motions of life, living out of habit rather than intention, and feel disconnected from who they are, sometimes not knowing how they got to where they are.

Integrative Mindful Self Compassion Therapy for Women

At Villa Kali Ma, we understand that life can be demanding and stressful, making it hard to stay present and even harder to give yourself some slack and the tender loving care that you deserve. Our mindful self compassion therapy program aims to help you pay attention to your choices, habits, thoughts, words, and actions, all while showing yourself compassion, loving-kindness, and non-judgment. We know you are doing the best you can, and we are here to help you practice the necessary skills to make life more meaningful and abundant.

Mindfulness originated from Buddhist practices and has been adapted by many psychologists, such as Jon Kabat Zinn, into mindful self compassion therapy programs and used in various treatment modalities, including DBT, trauma-informed therapy, and substance abuse recovery to assist in healing and to improve overall well-being. By joining Villa Kali Ma’s mindful self compassion therapy program, you will learn the skills needed to understand and use your mind rather than allowing your mind to use you. You will engage in exercises that help you stay present and aware and discuss the benefits of not labeling thoughts or actions as good or bad but simply noticing everything for exactly what it is and letting that be.

Forming attachment to people, things, and thoughts often leads to unnecessary suffering. We have thousands of thoughts every day; by learning how to notice them with no need to label them or dwell on them, you will bring more contentment and inner peace into your life. One of the most beneficial components of this group is the safe space provided to cultivate self-compassion, self-forgiveness, kindness, friendliness, and openness to your own subjective experiences. Mindfulness trains us to accept, understand, and be at ease with our own experiences rather than resisting them. Pain + resistance = suffering.

The long-term benefits that mindful self compassion therapy brings include choosing what we become emotional about and when it happens. You will start to train your ability to widen the gap between stimulus and response to control your impulses and make smart, educated choices congruent with your values and beliefs. The equanimity of pleasure and pain is part of the human experience. Pain is inevitable; however, long-term suffering is optional. The cause of long-term suffering is clinging to or resisting the feelings and emotions that the pain brings.

Releasing your suffering is possible by learning to tolerate the stress and unease in your mind and body by having acceptance and compassion for all that you are. Although treatment facilities like Villa Kali Ma are wonderful places for healing and recovery and filled with wonderful clinicians and staff dedicated to helping you, the truth is that you already have everything you need to heal. The goal of our mindful self compassion therapy program is to empower you to tap into your own healing nature so that by the time you leave here, you feel confident in your ability to stay on the path of recovery while mindfully showing yourself the love and compassion that you deserve.

I don't believe it to be an exaggeration to say that Villa Kali Ma saved my life.
I couldn't have asked for a better environment to heal and redirect onto a path towards true living.


This place completely changed my life. I needed a drastic change from the typical recovery environment in order to stay sober long-term. I can honestly say that I love who I am today and I am forever grateful for Villa Kali Ma!


I am so grateful I found Villa Kali Ma, it has truly changed my life. Kay is awesome and the entire team who works there is absolutely amazing. If you need treatment, I highly recommend making this the start to your recovery.


Villa Kali Ma is an in-network provider with Anthem BCBS, Multiplan, First Health, and an authorized
out-of-network provider with TRICARE accepting most PPO plans or out-of-network benefits.
Call (760) 814-8214 for information on cost and payment options.