A Journey Within and Beyond Emotional Distress

What separates us, humans, from the rest of our animal kingdom is our inherent ability to experience complex thoughts and emotions. Although this is a great strength that has allowed us to evolve into the multifaceted species that we are, it can also complicate our lives and make day-to-day life much more difficult. While being able to think so critically may attract an abundance of feelings, including compassion and bliss, it can also create unhealthy behaviors, including (but not limited to):

In our emotion regulation therapy program, we spend time exploring our thoughts and emotions and how they shape our behavior and experience of the world. To fully understand our thoughts and emotions, some psychoeducation about the brain’s parts and various hormones and neurotransmitters that come into play when we are experiencing certain emotions are introduced and discussed. Having a full range of emotional expression is necessary and natural.

Integrative, Holistic Emotion Regulation Therapy for Women

We need seemingly undesirable emotions such as fear and stress for motivation, creativity, learning, and our own survival. Unfortunately, sometimes stress can become harmful and overwhelming to our equilibrium and nervous system if not managed appropriately. We have all heard how prolonged stress can lead to long-term physical, emotional, and mental health problems.

The same can be said about chronic anxiety, depression, and fear. Luckily, with some guidance in understanding our minds and bodies and the use of CBT and DBT mindfulness skills, we can build more healthy connections between the areas of the brain that are active during stressful and difficult times to slow down the negative reactivity and increase our awareness to our bodies as a whole.

This makes us more resilient, lessening the negative ramifications of stress and difficult emotions, and potentially negating their impact altogether. During emotion regulation therapy, we discuss our emotions and practice emotion regulation skills to all gain greater emotional tolerance and the capacity to endure the ups and downs of life, work, school, and relationships.

More mind-body awareness also strengthens the parts of our brain associated with the interpretation of emotions and our ability to relate to others, increasing our empathy and making us more likable and agreeable humans to interact with. We also explore the presence of positive emotions and learn ways to cultivate more of them into our lives because we could all use more love, compassion, joy, and bliss – am I right?!

Through interactive discussions, educational videos, and group member support, we learn to embrace our human condition and appreciate our unique ability to experience such higher cognitive and emotional functioning. Our goal is to leave the women in our emotion regulation therapy program with feelings of empowerment and confidence so that they can handle whatever curveballs life throws their way with grace and resiliency.

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